EDIT: I Changed a Little Bit of My View on Relationships

Okay, so I basically still think the same thing as I used to, except now, I don't care if my boyfriend's kissing/dating/etc. another girl, as long as he tells me and doesn't keep it a secret. Why should I care, as long as I'm getting some too? Seriously, it doesn't bother me anymore since I realized that.

If I was married to him I'd care, because you're vowing to stay true to them and not to cheat on them or anything. I'm never getting married though; it's not for me, or my boyfriend. We both have relations with people other than each other, and we don't consider it cheating, because we both know and we don't mind as long as we're still...you know, "getting some" from each other (I don't only mean sex by that).

My View on Marriage

Hey there, Anonymous again! This time, I'm talking about marriage and my opinion on it.

Okay, so marriage is all great and wonderful and exciting for lots of people. In my opinion, it's just a waste of money, seeing as it doesn't make you love your partner more than you did before the marriage, and divorces are very common, despite the vows. Cheating still occurs with married couples as well. It also puts lots of people in debt.

I'm unsure if I'd like to get married, because I don't want to spend all that money (parents would pay for some stuff), and I'm not necessarily a monogamist, like married people vow to be. I'm a polygamist. I'm not a slut, I'm just realistic, and we're all biological creatures like animals, meant to reproduce, often with more than one person.

My View On Cheating (In Relationships)

Hey there, I'm Anonymous Wise Woman, but you can just call me Anonymous. This is my first blog post.


My view on cheating in relationships:

In some ways I see it as okay, and in some ways I don't.

Why it's okay:

We're animals, and animals are meant to mate and reproduce, and we're not meant to be monogomous.

It doesn't make sense to me that people get angry when they see their partner/the person they like/love with another person. I mean, I get jealous, but I don't get why. We shouldn't. Other animals don't. And it doesn't make sense--if you're with them, why do you care if you're not the only one?

People get pleasure out of sexual intercourse, but more when it's with a new sexual partner. That's not just a dumb little fact, it's scientifically correct. It makes your dopamine levels higher when you have sex with a new sexual partner. So it makes for a happier person overall.

Why it's not okay:

Many people don't like the idea of cheating, and would be very angry if they were cheated on. And you should respect your partner's beliefs.

Over time, humans have grown to believe that cheating's a terrible sin.



What I'd do if I found my partner with another woman:

I'd be a little shocked if I didn't know he was with another woman, but I wouldn't necessarily be mad. Well, it depends. Let me explain.

I'd be mad if he was literally dating her and kissing her and such, because those are interactions that have nothing to do with the biological creatures we are. I would probably be a little jealous if my partner was having sex with another woman, I have to admit, but I wouldn't get mad at him, because we're on Earth to reproduce, not necessarily with the same person every time.

That's also one of the reasons I'm not sure if I'd like to be married, because that's a commitment saying you'll be faithful to that person and only that one person. I'm not saying I'm a slut, I'm just saying I don't know if I want to have only one sexual partner.

I'll only ever have one partner (ex. only one boyfriend), but I might have more than one sexual partner (ex. one boyfriend and 2+ sexual partners, including him).

I'll post a blog about my view on marriage tomorrow.