My View On Cheating (In Relationships)

Hey there, I'm Anonymous Wise Woman, but you can just call me Anonymous. This is my first blog post.


My view on cheating in relationships:

In some ways I see it as okay, and in some ways I don't.

Why it's okay:

We're animals, and animals are meant to mate and reproduce, and we're not meant to be monogomous.

It doesn't make sense to me that people get angry when they see their partner/the person they like/love with another person. I mean, I get jealous, but I don't get why. We shouldn't. Other animals don't. And it doesn't make sense--if you're with them, why do you care if you're not the only one?

People get pleasure out of sexual intercourse, but more when it's with a new sexual partner. That's not just a dumb little fact, it's scientifically correct. It makes your dopamine levels higher when you have sex with a new sexual partner. So it makes for a happier person overall.

Why it's not okay:

Many people don't like the idea of cheating, and would be very angry if they were cheated on. And you should respect your partner's beliefs.

Over time, humans have grown to believe that cheating's a terrible sin.



What I'd do if I found my partner with another woman:

I'd be a little shocked if I didn't know he was with another woman, but I wouldn't necessarily be mad. Well, it depends. Let me explain.

I'd be mad if he was literally dating her and kissing her and such, because those are interactions that have nothing to do with the biological creatures we are. I would probably be a little jealous if my partner was having sex with another woman, I have to admit, but I wouldn't get mad at him, because we're on Earth to reproduce, not necessarily with the same person every time.

That's also one of the reasons I'm not sure if I'd like to be married, because that's a commitment saying you'll be faithful to that person and only that one person. I'm not saying I'm a slut, I'm just saying I don't know if I want to have only one sexual partner.

I'll only ever have one partner (ex. only one boyfriend), but I might have more than one sexual partner (ex. one boyfriend and 2+ sexual partners, including him).

I'll post a blog about my view on marriage tomorrow.